Happy New Year! Hope its not too late to wish.

:)

Beautiful picture taken by beautiful someone. :)

gosh, no matter how much sleep i have.

it's never enough.

sigh...

I finally started my very first assignment for this semester...

with a word...

and nothing else.

Introduction.

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Hi. It's me, writing at this late night. cause i had too much sleep in the afternoon.

There is this famous quote that i saw a lot of people posted on facebook, this :

Well. I have no comments on that, it is very subjective. I don't know. but I guess cheating is the worst thing someone can do to another person.

So yeah, cheating.

If you got cheated, don't blame yourself. We start feeling like we've did something wrong. We, the woman, loose our self-esteem because this person is seeing and being with someone else. We start tearing ourselves apart trying to figure out what's wrong with us or what we did wrong in the relationship. You first have to accept there is nothing wrong with you. You are the same person, this person wanted to be with in the beginning. The main thing is do not blame yourself for a cheating man. And the worst thing a man could do, insincere apology and accusing the partner, for the sake of the guilt in him.

There is this saying that a man who cheats, will continue to do so, and that's the fact forever. It's more like a take it or leave it situation. Guys would normally agree on this, (f***ya) if you agree.

There are 2 choices, to leave or stay. If you've decided to stay with your cheating boyfriend, accept that is who he is. Nothing you can say or do will change that. Don't live your life in denial that he will stop cheating. If you have accepted him with his cheating ways, then he has accepted, that you have accepted him, so therefore he will continue cheating on you. It's your choice if you want to live like that. Nevertheless, if you've decided to leave, then do that, just leave. If you have accepted that he cheats and you do not want to be with someone like that, get out of the relationship. This person can't give you what you want and when it comes to your life, it's all about you. You have the right to not accept a boyfriend cheating on you.


It's kinda sad, either way. Stay or leave.

happy.



not.

Always look forward.

It is humanly impossible to go backward in a relationship. 

After you know that someone can be both kind and smart, you'll never settle for one without the other again. 

Therefore, every breakup is an opportunity to go forward, and, after a while, you may even be able to say thank you to the one who gave you your walking papers, even though it felt awful at the time.